Originally published in hardcover by Twelve in 2012. With a new foreword plus an additional chapter
Includes bibliographical references (pages 203-236)
Preface. The defining decade -- Introduction. Real time -- Work. Identity capital -- Weak ties -- The unthought known -- My life should look better on Facebook -- The customized life -- Love. An upmarket conversation -- Picking your family -- The cohabitation effect -- On dating down -- Being in like -- The brain and the body. Forward thinking -- Calm yourself -- Outside in -- Getting along and getting ahead -- Every body -- Do the math -- Epilogue: Will things work out for me?